Monday, January 19, 2009

innocent until proven guilty; right?

well unfortunately that isn't always the case. why is it that nowadays we are so quick to jump to conclusions and judge others?? sometimes a situation might seem as bad as it could possibly seem; but that doesn't mean that it was bad!!! sometimes you should TRUST others that they used their best judgement and made the best decision! Esp when you know that person better than anyone else; why would you be so quick to think the worse? If that's the case; then maybe you never knew the person in the first place. Stop letting others influence you and listen to your heart before making decisions and judging people. And if in your heart you truly feel you are making the right decision; then go with it. By all means, because the heart is usually right cus the mind gets easily confused by outside factors. But before going and "punishing" or "hurting" others based on what you THINK and not what you KNOW, really stop and ask yourself if you feel in your heart you are making the best decision and what you feel is right.

6 comments:

Miss.Stefanie said...

Always listen to your heart......I concur!

Reggie said...

CHURCH!!!! Preach, Ju!!!!

Jillian said...

...hmmm...

well if a person is making a hasty decision they are either fueled by emotion/hurt..or were looking for a way out...it hurts to be a casualty of false information...as human beings we always tend to think the worst first for some reason...

try not to wreck your brain trying to rationalize a seemingly irrational situation..just have faith in what the truth is...and things will work out the way they need to be...

*hug*

JuJu said...

[Miss. Stef:] that's why we are so much the same!

[Reggie:] psh; already!

[Jillian:] yea i def agree the decision was fueled by hurt & emotion and prob looking for an easy way out as well seeing how i was never even able to state my side - the situation was only viewed from the outside which hurts the most. but i def needed the hug; thanks boo!!

Teia said...

AMEN!! LOVE U & MISS U!!

JuJu said...

[Teia:] love u nd miss u too!!

 
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