i've decided i dont want just any and everyone reading my blog. a lot of times i am very open with my blog and come on here to share my emotions/feelings or whatever may be going on at the time. so i've decided to make my blog private and open to invited readers only. i already know off top a few of you that will def be invited to read it; for the others - if you are truly interested in continuing to follow my blog; let me know and i will make sure to open the invitation to you. but im tired of people coming to my blog jes to be nosey or try to figure out whats going on in my life that dont bother to ask me directly. if you dont already know, you probably were not meant to know and dont use my blog as a means to entertain your life. my blog will be open probably until tomorrow -- give those who care a day or so to let me know they would like to remain on here. so for those who are here to be catty; catch up on your gossip cus it will be eliminated from your eyes soon. some of you are heartfelt about coming here and seeing whats going on and that honestly means a lot to me; but for the others -- its adios amigo!